15 things to remember:
1. that thing you did that was kind of embarrassing and weird, everyone else forgot about that already
2. you look fine today, if you can’t notice something on your face standing 6 feet from a mirror then nobody else will either.
3. social lives can go through cycles sometimes, if you feel like your friends are all ignoring you for no reason they’re probably just busy with other things.
4. if you can’t stop thinking about someone or something, read a book, paint your nails or watch a movie. it won’t solve any serious problems but you will feel better.
5. listen with the intent to understand, not the intent to reply.
6. if you want something, go get it.
7. drink lots of water, eat lots of fruit, exercise more, go outside, get enough sleep and think positive thoughts.
8. if you don’t ask, the answer will always be no.
9. throw away the idea of a perfect tomorrow and live in the moment.
10. stop comparing yourself to others.
11. a beautiful day begins with a beautiful mindset. It’s a privilege to simply be alive and healthy. Start acting like life is a blessing.
12. act the way you’d like to be and soon you’ll be the way you’d like to act.
13. you will change. You’re not the same person you were three years ago. you’re not even the same person you were three minutes ago and that’s okay. especially if you don’t like the person you were three minutes ago.
14. you don’t have to open the curtains if you don’t want to.
15. being happy is the most important thing.
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7 billion people experienced 2015 in a different way. In 2015 I had my worst heartbreak. He was not even mine but I was willing to do almost anything just to see him smile and happy, without expecting anything in return. I was so small in his life while he was really big in mine. I freed my time to talk to him while he talked to me in his free time. 6 months went on and all I had were false hopes.
So in 2015 I learned the next time I fall in love, I will be brave. I will say no when I need to, and I will say yes when I really should. I will walk away when it is hurting me, I will not stay and hurt myself even more.
I will destroy you in the most beautiful way possible. And when I leave you will finally understand, why storms are named after people.
"— misjudgments & caitlyn siehl (via misjudgments)
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